How and when to deal with the main problems affecting a couple

Written by: Carolina Díez Jorge
Published: | Updated: 12/11/2018
Edited by: Anna Raventós Rodríguez

The main problem that a couple can have is the lack of communication between the two. In other cases it can be the lack of sexual relations, the lack of empathy, of respect, of admiration towards the other; The lack of complicity between the couple and, above all, wanting to change the other and want to turn the other into a double.

 

Problems of couple, when to go to the specialist?

Choosing the time to go to a specialist varies from culture to culture. For example, in the United States or Northern Europe, couples come to a psychologist who specializes in couples therapy before there are any great differences between them, avoiding the couple's wear and tear, and providing the couple with tools to grow together; In Spain, on the contrary, couples usually wait too long to go to the psychologist to help them. In some cases there has been so much wear and tear that the treatment becomes longer.

Partner issues

What is couple therapy?

In a first session, the couple goes to the specialist. Subsequently, according to the professional believes it appropriate, each partner is quoted separately to work on important aspects for the relationship. Depending on the case to be treated, the duration of treatment varies.

 

Couple therapy success rates

All good emotional work generates positive changes in people, and also in the couple.

When we begin to realize personal growth and see reality from the plane of balance, we learn that the important thing is to generate positive changes in oneself, instead of trying to change the other; In this way, we get a change in the other and in the self, in the relationship.

*Translated with Google translator. We apologize for any imperfection
 Carolina Díez Jorge

By Carolina Díez Jorge
Psychology

Ms. Díez Jorge is a psychologist specializing in Assisted Reproduction and Clinical Hypnosis. He also is an expert in smoking, phobias, self esteem issues, graphology and Rorschach. He has trained in psychotherapy limited time and has worked as a psychologist associate in the department of psychology at Harvard University. Currently working with the Human Reproduction Unit García del Real, with SAMUR and the Red Cross.

*Translated with Google translator. We apologize for any imperfection