In the depth of the human being there is the lost paradise, the state of fullness that could resemble what we call happiness , yes, the philosopher's stone lives in our interior, but life and our culture has endeavored to make us believe that happiness It depends on everything around us, what a great lie and what loss of opportunities this way of conceiving the world represents. It is confused with something that others may have, but not me, when in reality it is something that we can all have access to.
What a paradigm so old, that we tire of living as victims of everything that happens to us. It is time to make a cut of sleeves to all the lies that have gotten into our heads and we have done ours, that is, not having to follow a pattern, that is to say, it is enough to override what I feel and it is to rebel against that others believe is the best thing for me, to decide for yourself how you want to live your life.
Being authentic with oneself involves a conscious exercise that starts by asking oneself; who am I and what are my true needs , what is in me that prevents me from experiencing that feeling of wellbeing. It's about going from outside to inside. If we stay outside we begin to perform neurotic behaviors as I have to change car, work, couple, family, friends to be happy ... And it turns out that changes that respond to something not authentic, provide a momentary rush that lasts a specific time for come back, after months to be like at the beginning ... What is happening? Maybe we are projecting our frustrations abroad, since they have educated us to be politically correct and to be good at mathematics and not to take loving responsibility for ourselves.
They have inflated us to concepts that move away from our true essence , how much they earn, marry, etc.. Good actions for many but not for all and it seems that if we do not follow a protocol we can be seen as non gratos. And there we are all building a life that satisfies the environment but does it satisfy you? We are the only generators of our reality and if you fall into the fallacy that everything depends on the external you cancel yourself, you limit yourself and put more sticks on the wheel to be able to experience true fulfillment .
There are many keys and many entrance doors to reconcile us and reach the deepest, but there are two that are sine qua non condition, be loving and sincere with yourself, since it is not possible to give to others what you have not woken up in you. Sincerarte with you is an exercise that requires skill and courage. The voice always comes from our main enemy, our own ego , willing to play tricks that a priori makes you feel good "the fault is the other, I have done everything or almost everything well" and in the short term, you upload the flaps of the shirt, chest and you feel great ... But luckily life is wiser than ourselves and we begin to pay the consequences of our ego; I feel sad or anxious and I do not know why ... You may have missed vital opportunities for not having followed the path of truth and love and anchored in ego and fear. If you're like this, check out, do you treat yourself with love, be honest with you ...? The truth will set you free. And if you see that you just do not have the tools to go out, start with the humility of asking for help. To date, we have not been educated for it, but we are born with all the potential, why not awaken it? Let's become the main models for us, our children. The real social change goes through the individual change. And before closing, analyze; How much love have you given and how much have you received? Because when we die this is the only thing that we take away.