I want us to play

Written by: María Elena De Filpo Beascoechea
Published: | Updated: 17/01/2019
Edited by: Anna Raventós Rodríguez

I want us to play.

Think of the game, emphasizing the gerund: playing, action, doing.

The game involves; a doing framed in space and in time, which allows us to rise elsewhere, but knowing that we are limited by edges which in turn give wings to get out of them, not knowing where to arrive.

Let's see a child playing; your game is not developed in the air but it takes place in a certain time, a space where the activity and imaginary, or specific elements that make matter unfolds.

children playing

One way to understand the game would be like an activity without mandates, freely. For children to play freely, they should feel safe, be in an environment that contains them, ie, an external order allowing his inner freedom.

Game time is here and now, a spontaneous time.

A good way to accompany or play with a child is participating in the rules that characterize the game, whether express or implied. The important thing for the child is that not minimize the value of these rules, so we should not ignore them.

Playing the child is performing an activity for him very serious, taking his game, an end infinitely unpredictable.

I propose to take the time to watch them play, accompanying his game, without impositions, no rush, no ordering objectives; and I assure you will live a regressive experience, those childhood years, where we went into a safe but uncertain world, known but surprisingly, full of friendly characters and others feared ... but above all, a pleasant world!

*Translated with Google translator. We apologize for any imperfection
 María Elena De Filpo Beascoechea

By María Elena De Filpo Beascoechea
Psychology

María Elena De Filpo Beascoechea has a degree in Psychology from the University of Buenos Aires, Argentina, and from the Autonomous University of Madrid, Spain. She is a University Specialist in Adult Psychoanalytic Clinic and Psychotherapy, and a University Specialist in Psychoanalytic Clinic and Psychotherapy: the child and her family, by the University of Comillas, Spain. Specialist in Psychoanalytic Psychodrama. University of Buenos Aires, Argentina.

Serves adults, adolescents, couples, adoption, fathers / mothers and smokers interested in quitting smoking, among others ..

He has published numerous articles. She is editor of the Blog: "Piuquén Project, a space to talk about links". Conforma "Red Piuquén", Psychoanalysis in Madrid and Buenos Aires, face-to-face and Online.U Colleague in BsAs Lic Juan Walsh (+541140363371)

*Translated with Google translator. We apologize for any imperfection


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