How much time do we dedicate to our families, work, friends ...? Even our car passes the ITV, but what about us?. In Western culture there is a tendency to live mechanically, we do not realize that our voice is that of social conditioning where the IO is imposed over what I really feel. If we also add the stamps and patterns that we have inherited, especially from our parents, we can realize how far we are from our true essence. And to find it we must begin by asking ourselves if we are really living the life we want to live. Although that supposes to begin to take according to what kind of liberating decisions that often involve going through times of pain.
And what to do with the pain ? We can settle in a state of victim and say "poor me ...", blame others for what happens to us and even get angry with the world for the unfair way of treating us "with how good I am, how this happens to me ... ". But this is very difficult to move forward. You have to start taking yourself seriously and do an exercise of responsibility with yourself. Going from why this happens to the why it can be a good way to start. What we can experience as the most dramatic experience of our life can end up becoming the most enriching, in a true teacher. You have to admit that you have reached the point where you are, for something and for something. Making our fears aware will draw the path by which we must continue to continue to evolve, and to evolve we must dare with ourselves, that is, open ourselves to the possibility of experiencing the true freedom of being.
Make aware our fears , conditioning, stamps and patterns acquired in a responsible and loving way will give us the possibility of connecting to who we truly are, exceptional beings. It is true that facing our own shadow is not a simple task but if we dare we will end by thanking. We must try to avoid emotions or circumstances taking control of our lives, because we must learn to manage them.
Your world can change if you change your way of thinking and acting. We are our own owners but we can not wait for the arrival of fortune sitting on the sofa. Your essence , although something hidden, is already in you. You only have to dare to discover it!